I really didn’t want to do unpaid work.
When I started going to the local toy library in 2015, I was like, “Yeahhhhh, no way is anyone going to get me to volunteer for here! That’s what devalues women! They’re always working for free and are always expected to work for free! They’re always the ones doing the unpaid, unacknowledged community work and it SUCKS!”
When I started going to the local community centre for kids’ music & movement classes, I was like, “Yeahhhhh, no way is anyone … [etc]”
When I started going to the local kindergarten, I was like, “Yeahhhhh, no way is anyone … [etc]”
Then they asked for volunteers. And hardly anyone put their hands up. And it was just to occasionally update the kindergarten’s website, so … how could I not do it? It would be so easy. And they needed someone to compare some old documents with some new documents, which would take more time, but I could easily do it with a service like Diff Checker, so … how could I not do it?
And then I go to the monthly volunteers’ meetings and I hear about all this other stuff that needs doing. And I see they’re designing their surveys in an ineffectual way. And the website design is outdated. And the sign on the front of the building is all faded. And they have no project management system, they’re just managing all their tasks via email, even though their volunteer staff often changes year-to-year. And I’m like, aaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh.
So now I’m doing unpaid work. On top of my unpaid work as a carer. Hilarious. I mean, don’t get me wrong, it feels good to help out, and the organisation needs help, and I can fit it in, and I still want to be a full-time carer until the kids are in primary school. But 2016-Me would be shaking their head at 2018-Me, saying, “What are you doing?! Don’t do unpaid work damnit!”